A Real Teacher is Not Common

This morning I was reading some articles regarding the Common Core. For those of you who aren't educators, these standards have been set so that teachers and students have a consistent and clear understanding of what is taught in the classroom. The idea behind the Common Core seems to make sense - every student (basically) receives the same skills to grow into a productive member of society. In some ways, this is the gift that we give any child that steps into our classroom. The problem that many educators have with the Common Core is in the assessment. How do we know if the child has obtained the skills? Do the standardized tests really tell us what our students know? My answer (along with nearly every educator) is plain and simple: no.

I hear a lot of teachers talk about having to rush through lessons because they are a part of the Common Core. "I've got to get through this by Friday. I don't have time for a snow day!" We scramble and lose sight of what matters: our students. As we (and I'm just as guilty) rush through conjunctions in order to discuss semi-colons, are we really focusing on what knowledge is being obtained by our students? This rhetorical question has been bothering me for quite some time.

The fact is, some of the things our students really need to learn are not a part of the Common Core. Kindness, compassion, how to treat others. I don't see those listed under any standard, but don't we need those to be productive in society? Better yet, how do we teach those? We model them. We take time to listen to our students, even when we have a 46 minute lesson on personification to teach.

Don't forget what matters. Real teachers are all different. They all have something special to share. We are not in a profession of "common."

Promise to Change

My students are writing "This I Believe" essays. It's a basic essay designed to get them to think deeply and assess what they believe in. Last year, I wrote the essay along with the students. I think it's a good idea for me to work alongside them sometimes. Obviously,  I won't be writing the lengthy research paper at the end of the semester ;-)

While they were brainstorming, they were sharing quotes and ideas with me. It was kind of neat to hear their thoughts on life. One of them mentioned how they believe that happiness is a choice. While I completely agree with this, I began to wonder if I lived that way. Do I embrace each day? Do I choose to be happy? Do you?

An essential life lesson is that we have the power to change - not just our attitude, but many other aspects of life. We have the freedom to follow our dreams, change our lifestyles, and act a certain way. It's rather simple to say, but oftentimes difficult to do. Habits are formed that are seemingly impossible to break. We fail. It's scary to change, but we can.

Not only are we able to change, but we are worthy of it. We all deserve to make changes to better ourselves. No matter what the past has presented, the future is clear and new. We can take that promise and move forward. Know your worth. Know that you can change. Do it.

The Wonder of Wonder

Friendship and kindness. Two wonderful themes to base a Young Adult novel upon. I just completed Wonder by R.J. Palacino. It's an inspiring novel that I highly recommend to readers of all ages and abilities. In fact, I am considering reading it aloud to my 8th graders this semester. 

Wonder summary (from choosekind.tumbler.com): 

August Pullman was born with a facial deformity that, up until now, has prevented him from going to a mainstream school. Starting fifth grade at Beecher Prep, he wants nothing more than to be treated as an ordinary kid—but his new classmates can't get past Auggie's extraordinary face.WONDER by R. J. Palacio begins from Auggie's point of view, but soon switches to include that of his classmates, his sister, her boyfriend, and others. These perspectives converge in a portrait of one community's struggle with empathy, compassion, and acceptance. In a world where bullying among young people is an epidemic, this is a refreshing new narrative full of heart and hope. R. J. Palacio has called her debut novel "a meditation on kindness"—indeed, every reader will come away with a greater appreciation for the simple courage of friendship. Auggie is a hero to root for, a diamond in the rough who proves that you can’t blend in when you were born to stand out.

It was compelling from beginning to end. I didn't want to put it down, but I also wanted to savor the moments. I definitely have another book hangover after this one. I feel in love with Auggie. The support he received from his family was remarkable. It was a house full of love, which is something that too many kids today do not experience. There are a lot of hard times, but the theme of kindness weaved it's way through the story. It was easy to see how these seemingly small acts impacted not only Auggie, but everyone involved. "It's not enough to be friendly. You have to be a friend." 

After I completed the novel, I started looking into the book and author. I found that the book sparks a movement called "Choose Kind." You can even sign a pledge to 'choose kind.' It's funny how a novel can change the hearts and minds of so many people. Millions of people feel close to Auggie, just as I do. 

We are all beautiful. It's just our choice to see it. 

Why Words Matter

I love words. I love crafting them, reading them, and using them to change people's lives. I suppose this was the driving factor when I decided to become an English teacher. I believe in the power of words. I am passionate about helping others write and share their words. Everyone has a voice. I am here to listen.

I spend quite a lot of time grading papers. No, I am not complaining. I am simply stating a fact, and for the most part, I enjoy reading essays. It's rewarding to see the students improve. Challenging them to do their best and stretch themselves as writers is especially difficult but worth it in the end. Already with half of the year completed, I can see growth from all of them. The other day I was reading essays, and I was reminded how awesome my job really is. As I read, I learned about my students. Sometimes I am surprised at how much they are willing to share, but more than anything, I am humbled. They trust me enough to write about nearly anything. This is very therapeutic for them, and I am glad that they are able to use words as an outlet.

I love quotes, probably because they are made up of words. I put a quote on my board every week. It was one of those things that I figured went unnoticed until I got a little note from a student last year. I had the students write down reflections from the year. She shared that she really enjoyed the various quotes on the board -- some funny, others sentimental. I have made sure to continue the tradition this year. I was working in my room after school, and the janitor came in to take out the trash. He told me that he read my board every time he came into my room. We chatted a little bit, and I couldn't help but think as he left the room, "Words matter."

Think about what you say. Think about what you write. Words matter.

This Year's Promise

Happy New Year's Eve! We are about to complete yet another year. Along with the top ten lists and nostalgic conversations, we are granted the promise of the upcoming year. This is a time when people start changing their diets, sweating in the gym, going cold turkey on their heaters, and vowing to be kinder to others. While all of this looks good on paper, how many of us actually carry out these promises to ourselves? I'm just as guilty as the next person. I want the next year to be the "best one yet." I love the idea of a fresh start, a new beginning.

To be honest, I hadn't really thought about a New Year's resolution, but this morning I was reading online articles posted on Thought Catalog. It didn't take long, and I was captivated by an article titled "7 Thing I Learned From A Year Of Confidence." It was then that I realized that this year is going to be about loving myself. I need to promise to care about myself, feel confident, and know my importance.

In the article, the writer had a conversation with another confident woman. She told her, "I love myself, and know that I'm good. I'm a good person, I try hard, I learn from my mistakes No one can take that away from me." What an amazing gift she is giving herself on a daily basis.

Too often we put ourselves down. We forget our self-worth. How can we expect to love others when we are continually beating ourselves up for petty things? Instead, we must look at all of the wonderful attributes we all have. Everyone is positively contributing in some way or another.

This year, I will focus on loving myself. Self-care and self-love are underestimated and so very important.

Weekend Lessons

This weekend, I did quite a bit of traveling. I'm beginning to wonder if I should get rid of my apartment and live in my car. As I drove home this morning, I started reliving how I got to where I am today. I won't bore you with details, but sometimes I feel like it makes a lot of sense. I'm teaching at my district for a reason. I am surrounding myself with these people, spending my time doing what I need to be doing at this point in my life. Other times, nothing seems to fit. I get frustrated because I feel alone, like no one I care about is sharing my life with me. I never doubt the overall plan; however, I do get aggravated.

It takes those moments of frustration to adjust our outlook. It won't always make sense, and that's okay.

We won't always know the plan, but we always have to be ready. Listen.

Starts today.

We are always learning and growing. 

Come Home

Merry Christmas!

"For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace." - Isaiah 9:6

Last night, my mom and I watched the Christmas Eve service online. We were unable to make it to the church that I regularly attend, but I was just as happy to be a part of the service as it played across the silver MacBook. As always, I was impressed with the music and message of the Christmas story. The minister talked about Christmas being a time to "come home." There is a lot of brokenness and temptations that continually burn holes in our hearts, but Christ was born to grant us the amazing gift of grace. This is a time to reconnect with those that we love the most. It doesn't matter where "home" is; what matters is who we are with. Mary and Joseph were not "home" in Bethlehem, but they trusted God. They were together, obeying God, and that was what mattered to them. Where is "home" for you?

Another interesting thought that the minister brought up was loving those who are not always easy to love. Think about the people in your life. They are not always easy to love, right? We are humans and we make mistakes. "You know those people, and you still love them." Pretty powerful. Christmas reminds us of the love we receive from God, as well as the love we spread to others.

Have a blessed day :-)